Saturday, May 29, 2010

Hi. It's me again.

Hi.  It's me again.  Last Tues Dale and I made another trip to San Fran for checkup.  I drove up, Dale drove back, which was a good thing, as I started getting ill with a cold that afternoon.  We missed Hillary, who was helping Betsy King with the triplets.  To Hillary we say, "You did the right thing".

The appointment went well.  We first had a short visit with Twee, Dr Wolf's nurse practitioner.  Then we had a long visit with Dr 'Adam'.  That's his first name.  He's Polish.  No one can say his last name, so they just call him Adam.  He was very thorough in answering all of our questions, and in gathering information for our ultimate visit with Dr Wolf.   He gave us some interesting information regarding the medical study of Revlamid, the chemo "maintenance" drug that I will soon be ingesting.  He basically told us that it's all very new and experimental, but that when they started the study a year and a half ago, after one year they realized that none of the patients taking Revlamid had a re-occurrence of the cancer, but that several of those taking the placebo had.  The drug company felt it immoral to make the placebo group suffer any more, so they pulled the plug on the study last December, and put everyone on the Revlamid.  Without it, my recurrence probability was in a year or two, with the whole stem cell transplant thing (not as much fun as it sounds or looks) again.  He stated that with the recent advancements in the treatment for my particular form of cancer, that he expected a "cure" within the next 5-7 years.  Now that's good news.

Then Dr Wolf and Adam came in and made the decisions.  My numbers are still getting better, though not all the way to "we don't have any worries".  I don't need a blood transfusion.  I do have to get a bone marrow biopsy again from Dr Bonis, our local oncologist, before I should start the Revlamid.  From the indicators from the blood test, the cancer is still being held at bay, but the biopsy will get it down to the basic starting point of the cancer.  Dr Bonis got me into the study group for Revlamid, so the company that makes it, Cellgene, sends it to me at no cost, saving $8,000 a month in the cost of the still experimental drug.  All I have to do is fill out a survey they may send me after 20 days of taking the chemo pills, or talk to one of their representatives via a phone survey.  If I fail to do either, I'm dropped from the program.  They only send 28 pills.  If I don't tolerate it well, I'm to take them for 21 days with 1 week off in between.  If I do tolerate it well, then 28 days in a row, with no break.  Hey, if it works...

One of the little tug of wars between Dr Wolf & Bonis is regarding my starting a calcium replacement program.  Dr Bonis doesn't want me too, as it could cause kidney damage over the long term.  Drs Wolf & Adam insist, but are willing to lower the originally planned dosage.  Plus, I'll be getting blood tests at least once a month, and probably twice a month, and they'll order a test that would indicate any problem that could be starting due to the medication and adjust the dosage or stop it altogether.  So Zomeda here I come.
I have had such a wonderful week.  First Floyd Butterfield, great friend and inventor (go to http://www.microfueler.com/t-company.aspx ), took the time to take me out to lunch and for indescribably good chocolate cake, and I got to visit with him and Karla.  I also visited with and took back the wheel chair that Kim Kunz loaned us and got wonderful hugs and words of love and encouragement from him and Melody.  Then Ron Hogeland picked me up in his new Cobra replica and took me to lunch and we talked cancer (Ron's a year and a half survivor himself) and then he and his dear wife Barbara and Dale and I went to a movie together!  Those sort of moments, moments that I have been waiting for for a many months, have really lifted my spirits as you can never believe.  As Ron said to me over lunch, "It's amazing what you appreciate when you've had cancer."  Family and friends are at the very top of that list for me.

So for now things are continuing to look positive (imagine that) thanks to all of your prayers and good thoughts on our behalf.

'Old Paint' 'ill Git Ya Thar an Back

Wednesday, May 26, 2010

A Visit from Mammy (&Jeff)

Last weekend Kevin's mother was FINALLY able to visit after a long 9 months and we had a wonderful time. Kevin's brother Jeff took time off to bring her for a long weekend.
Their first night Dale made a great family dinner that we all enjoyed
The next day we were able to visit our good friends the Kings so Grandma could see their 3 month old triplets.
Grandma Richards spent some quality time with Colton
While Dale caught up with Caleb
While I hung out with Conner
The next day we went to Cambria and stopped by a cool shop for a guy who makes cool things out of natural California redwood. He gave Kevin a redwood mushroom for the garden.
Then Jeff treated us to a FABULOUS dinner at Linn's! It was an incredible meal and everyone left very happy and stuffed. Thank you Jeff & Mandy for the wonderful meal with the whole family.
Sunday morning we had to say our goodbyes but everyone had a nice time even though it was short it was about time.


Post Cancer Party

While we were in southern California for some Disney fun (without Kevin) we had a family & friends post cancer party.
Kevin meet with Sandy, our friend who's a chiropractor for some post treatment help.
He was able to get an adjustment, some helpful supplements and cell simulator on his back.
Then we got down to partying
 The Tulanian's, Olson's, Whitaker, Westbrook bunch
Judy (she's one of Kevin's "special friends") and Nancy
Kevin's niece Amberly, son Radley, husband Aaron, Dale, Kevin and Dale's brother Rick
Kevin's nephew Dan and Elle (we missed you Taryn)
Nancy, Kevin and Rick
Kim & Nick's adorable girls Courtney, Jocelyn and Lauren made a castle and village
We all had a wonderful time. Kevin was feeling great and did a lot of walking and standing at the party. Every day he is improving and making great strides in progress. His friends and family have been a crucial party of his speedy recovery and we are entirely grateful to you all!

Friday, May 14, 2010

Our Happy Place

Monday evening we had a nice Mother's day surprise, Grammy's sister Skid and her daughter Chris came for a visit. We had a delicious dinner with them and were able to catch up. Grammy & Skid are a cute pair, Grammy can't talk and Skid can't hear. They are the sweetest old ladies ever, WE LOVE THEM!

Dale & Hillary's 'Happy Place' is Disneyland which is why we have annual passes. Dale's is about to expire and oddly enough we didn't have much tome to use it this last year. So it was time for 1 last hurrah. 
 
We brought Tara along to celebrate her graduating with a masters in occupational therapy and met up with some friends & family along the way.
 
Disney has the best hats, we had a great time trying them on.
My cousin Kim & her two youngest met us in the morning for kiddie rides, which we love just as much as the kiddies! Loren & I rode the rocket ship ride.
In the afternoon our long time friends Joyce and her son Lance met us for part of the day. We rode Tower of Terror twice. Once because Tara had never been on it before and twice because it is SO much fun and we couldn't get enough!
(We are all in the front row Dale, Hillary, Tara, Joyce & Lance)
Then on to Toy Story
We had 2 wonderful, magical days at Disneyland and now are feet are killing us! We get to spend the rest of the weekend with our friends and family. It is so nice to have a mini break and get away from home and hospitals. We are all having a nice time and enjoying ourselves.
Friday we met with our fellow family camper Dr. Sandy T. who is a chiropractor and holistic healer. She was able to determine what vitamins and supplements Kevin needs to help his body heal after this traumatic 9 months.

Hillary